Everything is possible

"The beliefs we have with ourselves will be the most important thing in our lives."

Every person lives in his own psychic reality, which is created from his beliefs. The main reason for disagreement among people is that everyone thinks their attitude about something is just right. Observing reality helps us to understand that these are just different views on the same things, and a reliable criterion is our life experience. When we learn to analyze from different angles, we will realize that any position is unreliable, that it is only a point of view. What is the need to prove something to someone? Neglecting other people's attitudes causes negative emotions in us, but if we look at the other side, an attempt to prove something is a reflection of what we do not accept: conviction, that we know exactly how to do it; condemning the actions of others as a reflection of not accepting oneself; beliefs, which are already hopelessly obsolete; subconscious unwillingness for change.

Every person from birth has the ability to think and learn, everyone is born to have his own life experience: he learned to love, to think independently, to create his own world, to prove nothing to anyone, to reject nothing, accept the views of others people as they are (which does not necessarily mean that they are in agreement with them). Acceptance as the main mode of interaction with reality. When we are in agreement with conditions that are not in accordance with our beliefs, we feel a certain spiritual discomfort, but if there is such a circumstance, it is due to something, whether we like it or not. Acceptance means giving the right to another man the way he is. Recognizing that existing reality is as it is, we get the opportunity to contact and act on it. If we do not accept, we can not use what is given to us for something important. By opposed to certain people or circumstances, we waste a lot of energy in vain, which could greatly improve our lives. Never show anything to anyone, because the loss of energy is simply huge: then we extinguish ourselves, extinguishing other people, escaping the resources of the situation and our entire reality . We consume psychic energy for conversation and problems that are beyond the scope of our power, we spend energy on what we can not change: we try to educate others to manipulate them, instead of engaging in our work. The best way to prove something is to be our own life in the harmony of the inner and outer world, with a joyful and grateful acceptance of everything. Eastern philosophy calls this process "work in disorder," which in fact means to let everything be possible and to prove nothing to anyone."

“Uverenja koja imamo sa samim sobom biće nam najvažnija u životu.”

​Svaki čovek živi u sopstvenoj psihičkoj realnosti, koja je stvorena od njegovih uverenja. Glavni razlog neslaganja među ljudima je u tome što svi misle da je njihov stav o nečemu jedino ispravan.​

Posmatranje realnosti nam pomaže da shvatimo da su to samo različiti pogledi na iste stvari, a pouzdan kriterijum je naše životno iskustvo. Kada naučimo da analiziramo iz različitih uglova, shvatićemo da je bilo koja pozicija nepouzdana, da je to samo tačka gledišta.

​O čemu govori potreba da se nekome nešto dokazuje

Neprihvatanje stavova drugih ljudi kod nas izaziva negativne emocije, ali ako se pogleda sa druge strane, pokušaj da se nešto dokaže - to je refleksija onoga što ne prihvatamo kod sebe: ubeđenje, da tačno znamo kako treba; osuda postupaka drugih kao odraz neprihvatanja sebe; uverenja, koja su već beznadežno zastarela; podsvesna nespremnost za promene.

Svaki čovek od rođenja poseduje sposobnost da misli i uči, svako se rađa da bi dobio svoje sopstveno životno iskustvo: naučio da voli, da samostalno misli, da stvori svoj sopstveni svet, nikome ništa da ne dokazuje, ništa da ne odbacuje, prihvati gledišta drugih ljudi takvim kakvi jesu (što ne mora da znači da je saglasan sa njima).​​ Prihvatanje kao glavni način interakcije sa realnošću​.

Kad smo saglasni sa uslovima, koji nisu u skladu sa našim uverenjima, osećamo određenu duhovnu nelagodnost, ali, ako postoji neka takva okolnost, ona je zbog nečega data, bez obzira da li nam se sviđa ili ne. Prihvatanje znači dati pravo drugom čoveku da bude takav kakav jeste. Priznavajući da je postojeća realnost takva kakva jeste, dobijamo mogućnost da stupimo u kontakt sa njom i delujemo na nju. ​ Ako ne prihvatimo, ne možemo iskoristiti to što nam se daje zbog nečega važnog. Protivljenjem određenim ljudima ili okolnostima, uzaludno gubimo veliku količinu energije, koja je mogla znatno da poboljša naš život.

Nikada nikome ništa ne dokazujte, pošto je gubitak energije jednostavno ogroman: tada gasimo sebe, gasimo druge ljude, gasimo resurse situacija i celu našu stvarnost. Trošimo psihičku energiju na razgovor i probleme koji su van okvira naše moći, trošimo energiju na ono što ne možemo da promenimo: pokušavamo da vaspitavamo druge, da manipulišemo njima, umesto da se bavimo svojim poslom.

Najbolji način da nešto dokažemo, to je naš sopstveni život u harmoniji unutrašnjeg i spoljašnjeg sveta, sa radosnim i zahvalnim prihvatanjem svega. Istočna filozofija naziva ovaj proces " delanje u nedelanju" što zapravo znači dozvoliti da je sve moguće i nikome ništa ne dokazivati." ​